We often fill our life up with so many distractions that it can often make us blind to, overlook or even temporarily mask our woundedness and brokenness from current and past relationships and events. And to confront or deal with the cause becomes inconvenient or too painful. So, like an open wound, that goes undiagnosed and untreated, it leaves physical, emotional, and even relational scars that prevent us from living, leading, and loving in our purpose, our best life.
Avoiding or ignoring the wound we know from medical documentation infections can start to form and take over. This is exactly how dysfunction manifests and gets passed down. It spreads into the generations it is exposed to. We try to band aid it or ignore and pretend it’s not there but that only leads to self-destructive coping mechanisms and patterns. Such as; self-medicating it away, drinking it away, sexing it away, overeating it away, shopping it away, raging and controlling it away and even as far as physical self-wounding, in an attempt to bury or numb the pain. It’s like a deep stain on a carpet that you treat and clean but a few days later it resurfaces.
In reality, nothing will be resolved using any of those methods. And many times, they not only lead up to other destructive patterns in our lives, it can have a profound effect on our health. And statistics report the likelihood that these destructive patterns, if not treated and corrected, will be passed down to the next generations from our children, down to their children and so on, at a profound 98% probability.
We must remember we are modeling before our children, how to manage and cope with life’s experiences (good and bad). Healthy coping mechanisms are what we should desire in our own lives and for our family and children so we can leave a legacy of wellness and wholeness and love. By ignoring, minimizing, and even refusing to change the patterns and behaviors, the dysfunctional cycle will repeat itself in the generations to come and those after them. Not to mention, robbing us from living a balanced and healthy life. Sounds hopeless, it’s not!
It takes work on our part to break that cycle! But the reward outweighs the battle. Remember this didn’t happen overnight, it happened over time! Therefore, patience with yourself and the process is necessary as well as transparency, ownership, and authenticity. Getting to and dealing with the root cause of the pain, hurt, and dysfunction is the pivotal component of the holistic healing and change process.
Patricia is a great example of overcoming painful diversity and family dysfunctions. From a young child growing up in Guyana, into the adult she is today, she has been committed to growing and changing and has refused to repeat and pass down the hurt/pain and disconnection- dysfunction produces. Her experience and victory are what drives her to want to help others to not only overcome and heal, but holistically live their best life, connecting with their loved ones at every age and stage.
You will find that you are more alike than you are different. Patricia has been through this process and can relate firsthand with the emotional, psychological, and sometimes even the physical investment that is required and experienced during the process to break through and be free of the chains and patterns dysfunction binds you to. She will be there to couch you, guide you, motivate you and celebrate with you as you successfully heal and overcome the destructive behavior, habits, and patterns.
So, are you ready and determined to break the cycles of dysfunction that has plagued your life, kept you from being the best version of you for you and your family and purpose? If so, Patricia is ready to help you on your transformational journey.
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